Spy Ware is a good thing, it gives you a idea of what they do or don't do. Some things I'm glad I know, some things I wish I never knew. Her step-mother reads her mail and screens the stuff I need to know( sticks fingers in ears and screams lalallalalllalalala). Daughter lives with her mom, about 30 miles away and I see her every other weekend. Her brother lives with me and he gets the car when he graduates in May, so when he found out she was drive the car, the only thing he could say was wtf.